The Core Skills

The Core Skills

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Choosing Love - An Online Course in Finding Peace From ROCD

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Welcome!

  • Course Intro
  • Disclaimer
  • Anxiety Does Not Mean You Need to Leave
  • The Recipe for Anxiety
  • Words of Advice From People Who've Walked This Path

The "Choosing Love" Audio (40 minutes)

  • Choosing Love Audio

Lesson 1: The "Choosing Love" Approach

  • The Way Out of the ROCD Cycle
  • The ROCD Cycle
  • Obsessions - the "O" side of the ROCD cycle
  • Practice: Undoing the Urgency
  • Compulsions - The ā€œCā€ side of the ROCD cycle
  • How Do I Know If This Is Really ROCD?
  • The Path of Recovery
  • The Path of Recovery
  • Share your feedback

Lesson 2: Values - Walking a Path with Heart

  • Walking a Path with Heart
  • Knowing Your Values
  • Values List
  • Experiential Practice
  • From Head to Heart

Lesson 3: Healthy Expectations for a Relationship

  • Healthy Expectations for a Relationship
  • Healthy Expectations Worksheet
  • Love Is More Than a Feeling
  • The "Doing" Side of Love

Lesson 4: "It's not you, it's me!"

  • The Anxious Personality Type
  • The Anxious Personality Type
  • Anxiety Is an Output
  • Undoing the ROCD Trick & The You-Turn
  • The You-Turn Worksheet

Lesson 5: Doubt Is Not the Problem

  • Doubt Is the Norm
  • The Maze
  • Getting Unhooked
  • Doubt Is the Norm
  • Your Brain Is Not Your Boss
  • More Ways to Get Unhooked
  • "The Gift of Uncertainty" - Writings from a Fellow Traveler

Lesson 6: Connecting to Courage

  • Connecting to Courage
  • How to Do Courage
  • Quotes on Courage

Lesson 7: Doing ERP

  • Doing ERP
  • Building Your ERP Menu
  • FAQs about ERP
  • Share your feedback

Lesson 8: Be Bold, Build Intimacy

  • Be the Right Partner
  • Ways to Build Intimacy

Lesson 9: Bringing Together the "Choosing Love" Approach

  • Bringing the Core Skills Together
  • The Core Skills
  • 16 Steps for Handling ROCD
  • Your Help Sheet
  • Summarizing The Choosing Love Approach

Lesson 10: How Do I Choose to Stay or Leave?

  • Making the Big Choices
  • Thinking Through Big Choices

Extras

  • FAQs
  • Therapist Directory & Questions to Ask a Therapist You're Considering Working WIth

Post-Course Survey

  • Feedback Form